Success or Satisfaction ?

So what do you think of those two words in the title.Well,we all are aware of the meaning of these words since our childhood.But,but,but.....Do you think that you actually know the meaning of these words in real life???
Of course,  you don't.
Have you ever wondered, what success mean to the common people ? It's nothing but just a type of comparison. The comparison about money, status, power, position etc. Let's see how ?
Well, when you pass some of the toughest exams for govt jobs or engineering or medical, you are said to be successful and everyone, including you believes that now,  your life is beautiful. But what if, I say that you are living in a fool's paradise. Now I can prove it to you with the help of an small example....... Imagine yourself that you wanted to be an Officer but, even before you can think of appearing exams required and going through the selection process, One of your neighbor or friend qualify for the medical profession and now here starts the difference. You start thinking about his/her success,  your family starts telling you about him/her, your teacher and other friends also shows active participation in that. And finally,  your dream gets buried in between  your tension and his success and now, you have also decided to go in the medical line. So,  there are two possibilities. Either, you will ruin half of your life in that and fail, finally doing some silly jobs or you will pass those exams and become a doctor. But somewhere or the other your dream will still be alive there and whenever you will see an Officer, you will cry and you will die inside. Which will effect your current life ( Job,  Family, Friends etc.).
But at the same time, in the eyes of the people around you, who successfully supported you to kill your dream, you will be considered a good doctor and a successful person. Now,  the other option is leave all those and chase your dream. Here also, there are two possibilities. Either, you will chase your dream successfully or fail. But here if you fail also, it will give you motivation to chase one more time and what can happen worst is that, finally you will not get that, but then also by this time you will have many blessings of your hard work around you, so that you can do something better in life. And trust me, here after falling also, if you will see an Officer, you will simply have a smile on your face.
So,  just think for it once.
One side success makes you cry and on the other side failure inspires you to do good and smile. And trust me, if we all really work hard we can do anything and everything........ So, do what you like, what gives pleasure to you,  what you can do upto infinity and what you believe others can't do better than you, even if they can and do what satisfies you... Ultimately you are going to leave your own life and I will have my own. Now, it's your time..... To decide...... Success or Satisfaction ???

4 comments:

  1. Neelesh I dont think that thhis is true in the case of ssgians becoz all of us want to become an officer and ya we never changed our aim by seeing the success of relative or neighours in any other field... for us success is only getting stars and stripes on our shoulder nothing else ...

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  2. You are absolutely right brother but I m giving this with respect to the general people not based on just SSG

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